You should not expect to be the same couple you were 30 years ago—you go through a lot of stuff together. If you know what she likes, consider learning a little more about it ahead of time and hint that you did so. Five weeks ago, a letter writer jumped down my throat for giving advice to lesbians despite not being a lesbian myself. If we could just collectively raise the bar a little and invest as much in the art of dating as we do in the art of Facebooking, maybe lesbian courtship could be a brave new world. I'm going to Los Angeles to interview a celebrity for a project, and now he's trying to insert himself into this trip because he wants go starfucking!
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I believe that anyone who truly loves and cares for you in this case, your deity would want you to reach your most fulfilled self. When I refused to go on a trip with him and his husband, he guilt-tripped me for weeks. Take it day by day and come to terms with you might be friends with one of the best people in the world. It is good, though, if your political views are closely aligned. I have finally come to terms that I am indeed a lesbian, but now that I have come to terms with this how do I begin to accept it?